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Wilder donor Renee Nagel stands with a photo of her late husband John in the family home
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Renee and John Nagels’ devotion to family creates a legacy at Wilder

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For nearly 20 years, Wilder donors John and Renee Nagel hosted a weekly “Grandma and Grandpa Day” for their eight grandchildren. In the beginning, they lined babies up in the hallway for diaper changes. As the kids grew, they hosted wiener roasts and water balloon fights and drove their grandkids through their neighborhood in an antique car. “We did everything,” Renee says with a smile.

During the peak of Grandma and Grandpa Day, Renee and John hosted their grandchildren from 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. one day each week. After John passed away in February 2023, these are treasured memories for Renee, whose tight-knit family lives close to the Nagel home on Lake Minnetonka in Mound. Grandma and Grandpa Day is just one of the ways that the Nagels’ commitment to their family shines.

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Saint Paul Roots

Like Wilder, the Nagels have deep Saint Paul roots. John was raised in the Highland Park neighborhood; Renee in the Como Park area. The two met at a street dance at the Como Park Pavilion in 1957. John and a friend asked Renee and two of her friends to go for a drive. They formed an immediate connection and dated for five years before marrying in 1962. By then, John had graduated from Macalester College and was starting military service as an officer in the Navy. Renee worked as a nurse, and became a full-time homemaker when their two children were born.

John’s career in business began when he started one of the first coin-operated car washes in the Twin Cities. He and Renee managed the car wash for three years while John worked at 3M. He later worked at General Mills, and then started a 30-year career at Carlson Companies where he held several executive positions. 

Gift Inspired by a Surprise Wilder Connection 

The Nagels’ charitable legacy includes a planned gift they established at Wilder in 2000 after discovering a surprising connection. John joined Wilder’s Board of Directors after being nominated by another board member, and didn’t think he had any other connections to the organization.

Imagine John’s surprise when he learned that Wilder’s influence in his family went back decades. During a Board meeting, John heard a presentation about Wilder’s residential services for children, including a partnership with an orphanage serving St. Paul families. Board members passed around an historic register with records of children who had stayed in the orphanage from the 1880s to the 1920s. 

John was stunned to see his father’s name in the register: “Harry Nagel, age 6 1/2,” along with his father’s twin brother and their older sister. John recalled that his father and his siblings spent time at an orphanage after John’s grandfather died and his grandmother could not afford to care for her children until she remarried a year later. The three children were reunited with their mother, having benefitted from stable and compassionate care during the time she was getting back on her feet financially. 

The discovery inspired John and Renee to create The Harry T. and Helen I. Nagel Children’s Fund endowment at Wilder in his parents’ honor. The Nagel Children’s Fund is one of more than 50 endowments that support Wilder’s mission, and has distributed thousands of dollars to benefit children and families receiving mental health services at Wilder.

“Renee and John have lived their lives dedicated to their family – from John’s parents, to their kids and their grandchildren,” says Anne Rodenberg, director of major gifts and planned giving at Wilder. “It’s only fitting that their endowment supports children and families at Wilder."

Legacy Gifts Offer a Chance to Honor Family Values

Wilder is unique in its ability to manage endowed funds on behalf of donors. Named endowments are a way to honor long-standing family values and support Wilder’s work in perpetuity. While The Harry T. and Helen I. Nagel Children’s Fund is dedicated to supporting children’s mental health services at Wilder, other endowments support our mission in general, or are dedicated to supporting Wilder Research or other specific areas of our work. In each case, the principal gift is invested and only the investment earnings are used to fund the dedicated cause on an annual basis, forever. In that way, a named endowment has a meaningful purpose well beyond a donor’s lifetime. 

If you are interested in learning more about named endowments at Wilder, please contact Anne Rodenberg, director of major and planned giving. She would be happy to help you explore a lasting charitable gift that reflects your lifelong values and supports Wilder’s work now and forever.